I have just learned to let it go.
Let the dishes wait until morning, let the laundry soak for a few hours while you play cops and robbers, and opt for takeout when there's a busy afternoon or evening with enough running around to be done without throwing a home cooked meal into the mix.
This works, but often leads to pile ups, leaving me working my butt off for hours getting chores done that I have slacked on the days before.
I wanted to share this chart I found on social media. I would like to give it a try, and perhaps see if I can keep up with the chores, If I break them down and plan ahead.
I DID NOT create or edit this chart. I'm sharing it "as-is" to give you an idea of how to get started.